"How Do You Resolve a Conflict"

 ⁣A conflict is resolved when it can't happen again or when you can laugh about it.

These heuristics come from the teachings of the late Helmut Pilhar* who drove around Europe lecturing on Dr. Hamer’s work for many years.⁣

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It really helps to simplify what is necessary for a biological conflict to resolve.⁣

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🔸What will it take for you to not experience this conflict in this way ever again?⁣

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🔸What will it take to you to no longer see this as a threat?⁣

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🔸What will it take for you to not give an F about it anymore?⁣

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🔸What would have to be true for you to laugh about this?⁣

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🔸What will cause ‘the stone to fall from your soul’?⁣

Some examples of conflict resolution include…⁣

🏡 Moving out of your parents house, starting a new phase of life- getting a job, marriage 👰‍♀️, pregnancy🤰, menopause, finally speaking your mind 🦷, setting a boundary 🚧, establishing a territory 🗺️, realizing there is no danger, boost in self esteem 💪, returning home, reuniting 👫, finally leaving, getting free.⁣

⁣Your resolution is unique to you, to your specific situation, to exactly how your psyche experienced the unexpected, acute, dramatic, isolating shock.⁣

Most conflicts are resolved 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗹𝘆 and 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝘂𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗹𝘆.⁣

⁣Knowing how your body is biologically programmed to adapt helps you get in tune with your 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗰𝘁𝘀 and awareness helps you get in tune with your 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝘂𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.⁣

Looking at conflicts as an opportunity for growth and personal evolution will help you get out of victim mode and into creative solution mode.⁣

*Helmut’s whole library of online educational tutorials have been translated to English - highly recommended for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of GHk. (Courses can be purchased individually or in a bundle that includes a telegram study group, quizzes, and twice monthly Q&A webinars)⁣

There are many layers of nuance to the full picture of GHk (like when 𝗻𝗼𝘁 to resolve a conflict).⁣

Blog posts are breadcrumbs, but they cannot provide the full depth needed to really grok this.⁣

As Helmut says, you should make studying this work your hobby and do it while you are well.

**For a limited time if you enroll in the GHK-Academy 60 Seminar Bundle  you can also join my weekly Language of Adaptation class and I will waive the $333 set up fee! Send an email to [email protected] with a screenshot of your enrollment receipt for the coupon code.